Dating the wrong guy
The bad times won’t even show up on your radar—until it’s too late. Is it because you’re too scared to ask about their future plans? Is it because you never say what you want or you’re willing to change the core of who you are in order to try and make the relationship work?
Some of the dumbest advice ever spoken is “The best way to get over a person is to get under a new one.” And yet, there are a of people who actually believe that. In other words, you’ll pick someone who is a lot like who you just broke up with because you’ll be looking for who made you feel like they did during the good times. If you keep dating people who want different things than you do, have you asked yourself ?Of course, being with a guy just because you have nothing better to do is the worst idea ever, and you’re better off alone than with one that’s wrong for you. It’s always nice when you have someone around to bring a little romance to your life, but it’s straight up unnecessary.Having a guy around is great, but being with the wrong one just takes away from time you could be spending on doing things to better yourself, which in turn actually makes you a better partner for the guy that you’re actually meant to be with. If you’re caught up with someone who you know isn’t The One, you’re not leaving any room for the right one to come in.Breaks from dating are totally okay, and sometimes necessary.Dating can be super exhausting and sometimes when you land on one that’s OK, you figure, hey, why not coast here for a while?