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All relationships are hard – but long distance relationships have a whole other dimension to them.
You need to learn how to productively argue via Skype without yelling over each other because jealousy, trust issues, insecurities, and not being able to see each other every day will lead to arguments (I mean, more arguments than a normal relationship).
But if you are reading this, you probably want to go ahead with your long-distance relationship.
After all, no one actively decides “hey, seeing my significant other every day is overrated.
But I also think absence makes the heart go wander (clever, I know). I’ve noticed about 1/3 of the time it is justified, and the other 2/3 is just crazy talk. it’s just that distance makes people do crazy things.
During one particularly low point in our long-distance, Ryosuke forgot to log out of Facebook on my computer and I read through all of his private messages. I told him a couple months later – and he thought it was hilarious. Dealing with jealousy in a long distance relationship is one of the hardest things to do. You can trust your significant other not to cheat on you as much as you trust the sun to rise each day, but if you see a picture of them at a party with a hot blonde on their arm, jealousy is going to rear it’s ugly head. I love holding hands and leaning on my fiances shoulder on long bus rides. To me, more than the jealousy and trust, the lack of physical contact is the hardest aspect of a long distance relationship.
Between the phone calls, Skype calls, and text messages – you have absolutely no way of knowing what they are doing. You have to trust they will tell you if their affections are wavering or if they are tired of the relationship.
Over the last year and a half of long distance, I’ve had a couple breakdowns. Two months after my future husband (but then-boyfriend) returned to Japan, I did what any love-struck college student would do.For the next fourteen months, we did a long-distance relationship.Plane tickets, snail mail, surprise presents, hotel rooms, vacations, and bus tickets cost money.Without money, you can’t do a successful long distance relationship.